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Which is better: relationship lovemaking or a one-night stand? Is the grass always greener? Billie investigates…

When a girlfriend told me about another terribly disappointing one-night stand, it got me thinking about the differences between casual fucking and sex with a long-term partner. I remember longing for the spontaneous passion of a one-night stand during my last relationship, but now I’ve been single for a couple of years, I’m starting to crave the devoted, intense lovemaking that only a real relationship can provide. Is the grass always greener?

I’ve been having lots of thrilling flings recently, and it’s always exciting—my nerve-endings tingle as I allow the man of the moment to discover my body for the first time. The problem is unsatisfactory sex is more common when you’re single because there’s no real passion involved, and it can be difficult for people to relax.

If I cast my dirty mind back over my (many) sexual experiences, I’ve definitely done the nastiest sexual deeds when I’ve been in a relationship. For example, I only have anal sex or do S&M and role-playing with a boyfriend because I need to feel 100 per cent comfortable and safe. I love the fact that you can indulge your wildest fantasies in a relationship, but you also get to experience wonderful lovemaking. The wettest I have ever been was in the missionary position; my boyfriend and I kissed the whole time, as he filled me with slow, deep strokes. When I have a one-night stand, it tends to be fucking rather than lovemaking.

Come to think of it, the strongest orgasms I have ever experienced have all occurred when I’ve been in a relationship, so that makes my mind up—the best sex for me is with a long-term partner, as I climax much quicker and harder when I know the person intimately, most likely because they know exactly what prompts my body responds to. Hmm… Perhaps I’ll start encouraging my one-night stands to hang around for a little longer…

HOT TIP
If you’re in a relationship, take advantage of the comfortable situation and live out your wildest sexual fantasies while you have the chance.

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